My Thought for the Day, inspired by correspondence with a special someone: 

You can't stand next to someone who just keeps shooting themselves in the foot with a shotgun, without getting your own feet hit now and again. I mean, you could keep telling yourself they didn't mean it, and you could grab ear protection, or maybe put on some heavier boots, so it wouldn't be as bad, but really, you need to take a step back. Or maybe walk away.